We know we're still not over the loss of Downton Abbey's "sweetest spirit." But how long will the Crawleys officially wear black? And just what is “half-mourning”? Tara Austen Weaver explains the traditions of mourning:
Downton is a dark place these days—tempers fraying, stiff upper lips (I’m looking at you, Carson), and lots and lots of black. The house is in mourning, upstairs and down.
English mourning traditions were codified over the 1800s, influenced by that most mournful of monarchs, Queen Victoria, who wore nothing but black for forty years. By the time poor Sybil passed there were clear and delineated rules regarding how death was observed—with an abundance of black.
For the loss of a sibling, mourning would last six months: no color of any kind would be worn. Parents would mourn for as long as they felt disposed (Cora may be dressing in black for years to come). Servants would wear black armbands, and no one would attend balls.
James would have been relieved of his clock-winding duties. Timepieces would be stopped at time of death.
The later stages included a transition to “half-mourning,” where grey, lavender, and white could be worn. In five months, Mary and Edith will be able to break out some pale purple.
It’s going to be a long, dreary time of it when it comes to fashion at Downton. I can’t see how that is going to make missing Sybil any easier.
Now, where is that armband? I’m still feeling a bit battered by it all myself.